Monday, January 18, 2016

Having FIVE Girls

Having FIVE Girls
Let me tell you what this is like especially when we are out and about doing grocery shopping without my husband who is an over the road trucker.

1)   Are they all yours? Really, what do you think I do go out picking up strangers kids who all look like me and like each other? YES they are all mine and YES I enjoy it!!

2) Wow they are all girls! Wow you learned how to tell gender and realized that GOD didn’t sew dicks onto my kids’ congratulations your IQ has failed you again. YES they are all GIRLS and YES I enjoy it!!

3) I hope she’s not a single mom! Seriously thank you for only saying this to your significant other, friend, or to yourself because you are so narrow minded it is fucking ridiculous! NO I am not a single mom, YES my husband works his ass off to support our GIRLS!!

4) You must have your hands full! Um no really I don’t especially when my FIVE act 10 times better than the TWO you have in the store!! Please don’t think my hands are full because you don’t know how damn cool my kids are!!
5) Oh wow are you trying for a boy? I think you need to go back to school because you cannot try for a specific gender you idiot! I am thankful for each one of my GIRLS and love the fact that GOD made sure they are healthy!!

6) Are you done having kids? I really don’t think you want involved into my sex life! I love sex, I love getting laid by my husband and I do not plan to stop having sex any time soon so if a baby follows that is what was supposed to happen!!

The looks we get are just as bad as the comments!

7) That look you get when you go to check out! You are very self-centered if you think that just because I have 5 kids I am on state assistance. NO I do not get help unless you mean from my husband that works 70 hours a week!!
8) Oh your card didn’t work, I thought you were using LINK! Are you really that dumb that you cannot tell the difference between what a LINK card and a DEBIT card or did you just assume that I was poor because of my family size?! I think you as a cashier need to quit assuming and just ask if you don’t know.

Thankfully there are a few that understand what our lives are like and they do not judge in any way!!!

9) You have a beautiful family and your kids are outstanding! Thank you for understanding that just because I have what people nowadays consider to be too much used to just be a regular sized family!!

10) That is awesome we have 8 kids! You are amazing and I think you should make sure that people see big families are still okay not just out of the norm!!!

Remember that just because you see something that is not in the norm anymore doesn’t mean it is your place to meddle or to put in your two cents. I think many of us get enough crap about other things that we don’t need you asking questions, assuming you know the answer, or just being down right rude! I really hope my children learn that families are okay no matter if there are any kids to if there are 20 kids.